I have to agree with the previous posts. Your T's 'honesty' is somewhat ironic. He told you he was comfortable dealing with transference at the start yet is clearly not. His comments were judging and shaming. Therapy should be a safe place where we can bring all feelings into the room unless of course they harm the T. He should be able to contain your feelings but it seems he is not. The therapy shouldn't be about 'his' feelings or needs and he should deal with his issues arpund this in his own time particularly as they are affecting your progress/therapy