I wish I knew the answer to the question, but maybe you can help me with one. One of my twins, from the moment he could speak insisted he was a girl. There was a whole great big mess when he entered pre-school that I won't get in to.

I've always loved and accepted everything he's done, and announced to family members (in private of course) that they were NOT to say anything about it. He eventually "outgrew" the behavior. My question is, should I talk to him about it or wait for him to come to me?