I liked his saying he "needed to think about it." This to me means, he is not going by just his gut feelings, but by what is transpiring in the room, now that he knows. He SAYS he wasnt aware of things. SHE says she thought boundaries were dropping. THEY need to use their words, both of them!

Eta - technically im just responding to the "dishonest" argument, so im still bowed out, right?