Oh! Okay, i totally didnt take it that way. Its something my own t has said to me and then has gotten back to me on stuff.

Eta - i went thru the same stuff, in my past, with teachers, with previous ts, with a lot, so im reliving my own past here. I feel like im seeing my own car go thru the car wash and im watching thru the observation window. You know, where you get out of the car and watch it go thru?