Integration sounds like a scary word to the little parts of me. For some reason it sounds forced and something that the little parts have to do to be ok.

I'm not sure about the 3 parts inside the circle. Maybe that would be your 3 most prominent parts? The 3 parts that seem to be forward the most?

There are 3 parts of me that seem to always have a say in what's going on and how I perceive situations. Your post brought that to my attention as an "Oh! Ok."

Thank you!

I'm not sure if it's integration, but I've made a safe place for these three parts to come together and discuss things that are happening or situations that I have conflicting feelings about. Each part has their opinion and their view point, and each part is respected and heard.

I'm not sure if that's what you are describing, but that is what I saw when I read your post.