Sorry MickeyCheeky. Sounds like a basic human fear. I’m not a professional by any means however I have talked to many people and in intimate conversation seems to be something we all fear at some point in our life. Lol.... I’m kind of the opposite, here I am coming out of an awful and abusive relationship @ 43 years old and fear I am too old to gain any interest from anyone and I may very well end up alone. As of right now I have no interest in another relationship. I am not sure if you mean something just physical or a committed relationship.

Believe me, your turn is coming. It’s the way of the world, there will be someone come along and you will get your experience. How lovely would it be if as humans, the first emotional, intimate, committed relationship whether it was short term or long term, worked out and and has been a successful relation since.... yea. That doesn’t happen very often anymore so I would think there would be many, especially those browsing this particular forum, that would agree...... you will have your experience and perhaps it will work very well. As I mentioned I sit here trying to recover from a relationship and I think back at all the relationships I have had and at the core I have a fear of being alone. I think it could be human nature to feel that way sometimes when we don’t have companionship, after all we are human and we are social beings and we have that built into our wiring as some sort of need. I don’t know.... I am just rambling now. Anyway, hang in there, it is coming... there is no way around it.