I see where you say there is no abuse or anything like that going on.

I agree with Erebos, give it due process and if this isn’t a pattern, go. You couldn’t possibly imagine the regret I am going through right now for not leaving a relationship my gut told me to leave long ago, I clearly see now this is my pattern, I have always stayed in the relationship way too long and it ends bitter and bloody from verbal abuse on both sides. Had I recognized this before or should I say was aware of this, I could have avoided the last year of misery. I want to kick myself in the *** for not leaving when I was clearly having an intuition on so many occasions that it would never work out for whatever reason, I am not certain the reason matters, the times I have said to myself in the 6 months I should have let this go way long ago..... it is impossible for me to count or recall the many times I told myself to let it go. I didn’t and it was biter to the extreme more so on my side, I can admit that.

That has been my experience.