Wow, I feel for you on this one. First of all, I am truly sorry about your abusive therapist. I have been through that and it is not easy.

If it were me, I would absolutely need clarification. That is a big thing to lie about. I hope that there is another reasonable explanation. I'm not sure how you would bring it up without sounding accusatory, though. It's a difficult topic to broach for sure. I'll be interested to see how she responds.

I hope that it turns out to be a misunderstanding/miscommunication and you can continue to work with her.