It's pretty common for T's to draw boundaries when it comes to talking to patients out of session. I'd say doing so is the exception rather than the rule. When depressed I feel excessively isolated & unloved, so I understand your perspective. Keep in mind, however, that it's the depression talking. You're by no means boring...& applying for a job with 50 applicants isn't being screwed; it's just the law of averages. Good luck getting an interview, and keep posting here.