Sounds exactly like my first employer. Sweet, charming but she would ruin you. She chewed me out in front of my coworkers to the point I was in tears and then claimed I was too sensitive because I cried. If people caught me I lied and said my cat was sick. I cried because it hurt. She knew I had Aspergers but she did not make any effort to work with it (I had problems catching on she asked if I was learning disabled) and I was the stupid one. She canned me and it took a year and a half to find a job I finally felt happy with. But you are never too sensitive. You have your boundaries, your employer can't make that for you. From personal experience I would not wait, find that new job and leave, the longer you stay she will try to find some reason to get rid of you. I got thrown under the bus. Don't wait until they do that to you.