Helloo,

I've been talking with a man for the past 3 or 4 weeks and we've only met twice. I've posted about him before, the guy who seemed to be rushing into a relationship (talking about our future together, cancelling our third date, presumably telling me things I might wanna hear) and then we decided it was a bullet dodged.

Well, I asked him if he ever wanted to meet me again because it seemed like he really didn't.

He said "I thought if you were interested in meeting again, you'd message - if you didn't message, you wouldn't want to"

I interpreted this as "I'm not bothered if I see you again". My therapist says he's probably dating loads of guys. Which would suggest he has no problem letting me go because he has all of those backups. I really don't like that idea at all so I'm removing myself from that situation.

Anyway, he said something along the lines of "I like you, I think we got on, believe it or not. If you wanna move on, I'll understand" so I took it like this: He can't be that interested and if he truly liked me, why was it me who had to message him for all of this to come out? It seems like an easy save as well as a polite subtle let down. Or am I mad??

It was all very matter-of-fact. I didn't 'feel' like he was interested. We hadn't spoke in days.

So in conclusion, I decided not to see him or anyone again any time soon. Dating is truly too complicated for me at the moment.