I always disclose my bipolar right away to potential partners, friends, etc. Even a handful of people at work know (I need to be careful due to being a teacher). It is part of who I am and I have no need to hide it or to make apologies for it. At this point in my life, I have no need for people who don't accept me for who I am...You did the right thing by being upfront and I am so happy it worked out for you!! Be grateful he is open minded just don't put him on a pedestal for it. Having tolerances of other's differences is how people are supposed to be.