That's what I think. I agree. But I don't think he neccessarily thinks that. I think this is normal for him and he doesn't see a problem with it. He said in his last relationship he tended to be neglectful and have a hard time with empathy. He said they lived together but still grew apart and didn't spend time together. I don't want that to happen .. But I feel sometimes he does lack empathy. I guess we're together because we love each other and we have some things in common. We generally don't irritate each other. We're both pretty laid back.. I can be a little passive aggressive though. I got grumpy about the dishes not being done when he had been at home all day.. but I know it was just because I hadn't heard from him all day and more than likely he was msging other people through the day.
I feel like I'm asking him not to have friends.