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May 23, 2018, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted by starrysky
Guess what? Me and that guy I met on OkC are finally meeting! Tomorrow. It's the guy who I posted about who didn't text happy birthday to me a couple weeks ago. I think he's awesome and seems like a good guy. We have talked on the phone too!
My question is, when do I tell him I'm on disability? I want him to know. Mainly, so that if it's a deal breaker for him, we can get it over with, and maybe then be friends or go our separate ways. I have so far told him that I am able to not work right now, so I'm not working. And that I'm exploring my interests, and looking for a place to volunteer and work in the meantime. All true! He just doesn't know the mental health disability part. But I mean, this is just dating. But I actually find myself really liking him, and I think I want to be real.
When do I tell him?
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You know, the guy I'm currently seeing, also from OKC, lolz, and I met online around my bday and I don't think he texted me happy b-day. We had only been communicating online so I didn't think anything of it. So I'm glad you let that pass. Until you meet in person, all bets are off. IMO.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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