I apologize if my comment was offensive. For myself, I was stating how I feel about repetitive household tasks. It's a sensitive subject for me, because in the past, my husband (who has a pretty intense case of OCD, is an extremely disorganized person and doesn't do well with time management) has gotten out of doing housework because of the way he is. It was always my responsibility to get everything done, no matter how tired I was or how I was feeling. I just wondered how your wife felt when she excused you from the task.