I'm dating a guy and for the most part it's fine - I like his company and we get on well together, he cooks me meals, is super careful about consent and sometimes comes over to cuddle me when I've had a tough day. But sometimes when I'm out with him or at his house he gets mad at me for things I can't control, like my phobia of wasps, and threatens to take me back to my place and leave me there. He also gets annoyed with me for being stressed when he reckons he has more reason to be stressed than me, even when my anxiety reaches the point where it causes me physical pain. Am I wrong to be uncomfortable with this?