Personally I think it’s something to do with type of crowd you associate with. If it always happens in the same setting then it’s something to do with the setting and the type of people in that setting. Especially if there is alcohol involved. And I am sorry these people lack class.

If you like that setting for other reasons (like particular music or performance etc) then I guess you have to put up with this.

My husband and I are nice looking people. No one ever hits on any of us in the other’s presence. Never. Not now, not when we weren’t married and had no rings on. And we both social and talk to anyone. Partially due to nature of our professions we talk to anyone about anything.

Last Sunday we were at the concert and actually made friends with two sisters, we had the loveliest conversation having a meal prior to it (it was local orchestra hall with a restaurant inside) and then chatted after the performance. At no point anyone hit on anyone. I can’t even imagine. Trust me, it’s that particular crowd. Running their hands through my husbands hair? Lol It is not socially acceptable behavior. It’s also not typical.