
May 24, 2018, 09:10 AM
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Yeah, I can see being upset that women are so forward right in front of you. My response would be to make fun of them after they left. I'd probably tease my bf about it too. Cause I don't care. If someone wants to be with me, they will be with me. It's not some girl in a bar that will make him leave me. And if it is, then good riddance.
I was going to suggest you confront your friend. If she is a friend, then that behavior is just unacceptable. Even if she was drunk or high, I think it still needs to be called to her attention that she was hitting on your guy. Not cool.
Flirting is a funny thing. People think I flirt a lot when I'm just friendly and will talk to anyone about anything, much like Divine. If I'm flirting, to me it's very obvious. I'll send out signals like touching the man's arm or shoulder, leaning in to whisper, double entendres....yeah, so flirting to me is obvious. But I guess with pretty women just being friendly and smiling is taken as flirting. I'm like, just because I smiled and said hello does not mean I was flirting...um, right? But for some reason there are men who take it that way.
Glad you spoke up if something was bothering you.
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