Oh man, you sure don't need unsupportive noseys! I'm sorry you're having to deal with that as well. Sheesh. I honestly don't understand people who insist on pushing in and trying to circumvent-- in short, completely disrespecting your wishes!
I'm glad you're getting some self care in, some food and sleep -- keep it up. Do not forget yourself in all of this. Glad that your daughter is sounding better.
Glad we can be here for you -- you are now safely in the no overstepping zone

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