Yes exactly that. It started with him saying he was "consciously reining himself in" when I was talking about a professional, and somewhat political issue. It felt he wasn't able to be real with me.
But now I am not so sure that's what's causing the disconnect anyway. I feel like I'm collating a list of examples of him dismissing or avoiding my attempts to talk about what's happening in the therapy room. It's something we've always done and he's always been very reflective. I don't know what's changed. It's confusing.