How should I know if the therapist will really work on it?
Can you elaborate on your personal belief before throwing it away like that?
See, I am inserting time and money into this slot machine, instead of ensuring the therapist will actually be committed to taking care of their contempt

On the other hand, they are not the only one. There are some from whom I may suspect contempt, and then there are therapists from whom I get bad gut feelings
There is one therapist who may be well for me but they don't treat HF-ASD