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Originally Posted by Bill3
When you go see the first friend, you can say upfront something like "I came over because I am free for an hour." Then, when the hour is up, comment on that and then get up to leave."
Mentioning suicide is a big concern though. Perhaps you could encourage him to speak more about that? You could ask what his reasons to die are, what his reasons to live are, and ask if he has a plan and the means needed to implement the plan. If what he says still is concerning, I suggest that you call 1-800-273-TALK (8255), the National Suicide Lifeline, and ask them for advice on what to do next. For one thing, you could encourage him to call that number.
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You are right. I'll pay him a visit. the suicide talk calls for attention. His wife recently died and they were very close. I've been avoiding him for the very reason some people avoid me-too talkative. I'll have to tell him not to stop over drunk at 11pm. I don't mind if he stops over drunk but don't make me the last on his list when he goes out for the evening.