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Originally Posted by CepheidVariable
I won't dispute that failing at important things really hurts and is a problem. But failing doesn't make you bad person. You still choose how you treat people. You have shown a great deal of care for those close to you. We all have our faults, but there is good in you and about you.  |
This is a good post and I agree. Even if someone failed at some or even most of their jobs, (work places, so long as they don’t harm others) it wouldn’t make them a bad person or even an “intrinsically inferior person”. Failing at anything hurts, especially when we’ve been abused by so many
But there is a lot of good in you, that’s what matters - I strongly believe that your fiancé is “right” (I’ve struggled with similar
)
