I am worried that something is going on between me and T that is going to end in me leaving. For the first time ever I feel like he's not aware of how different he's being and he's not reflecting. I've been so used to his being so self-reflective that i dont know what to do with this. I am totally split between the parts of me that want to totally ignore it (the young parts that feel like I need to preserve the relationship to survive) and the parts of me saying "this isn't right, what's going on?"
All with a break coming up too. I really don't know what to do with all of this inner conflict.
For background I have been seeing him for 3.5 years and he's always been wonderfully self-reflective, non-defensive and honest. Just recently he's been a lot less receptive to talking about the relationship. Its weird and out of character but he doesn't seem to see it. He's not denying my perception he just seems confused by it.