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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
That does seem very unlike him, especially to agree with your perception but not address it. I’m sorry, it must be painful.
I think though you guys have been at least briefly misattuned before and he’s always come through in the end? Maybe trust that he will do it again—he seems like a mensch to me.
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Thanks atat. He will never deny my perceptions because he is aware that some stuff happens outside of his awareness and he says I am perceptive so he trusts my view of things even if he can't see it. That's what he always says. One difficulty is that I can't spot this stuff in the moment, I go away thinking "hang on, he totally avoided that" and then by next session neither of us are in that moment and can't figure out what was happening. The fact that he doesn't know anything is amiss until I raise it is frustrating, especially because it then happens again and I don't spot it until after. It's been a cycle recently.
Yeah we have been misattuned before and resolved it. I guess this just seems to be going on for ages. It reminds me slightly of when I left T1 because that was all about frustration at not having a voice over transference.
I had to look "mensch" up, but that's totally what he is. Thanks.