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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
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I am done compromising, as it delays my growth and wastes my time, and lowers my morale
I am done forgiving, because it does not fix others' issues which are harmful to others
EDIT: Oh, and let me give you an example for a contemptible comment someone made - they once started a "What happened to the old you?" questioning, and started showing neediness for me to "Be the old me".
That's contemptible and extremely pathetic. It projects the message - "I don't like you as who you are. I want you to be someone else"
More like, you don't want me, so off you go you piece of s***
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Or "I don't feel liked, I miss our connection. What happened?"
If you see the vulnerability and imperfection of others as contemptible at best and malicious at worst, it pretty much makes loneliness inevitable. You don't have to attribute terrible motives to people or put their messages through the meanest possible translator.