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Originally Posted by unaluna
I think, not being able to accept our ts humanity has its origins in our parents not being able to accept who we were. I have the most meticulous t ever - but its taken me over ten years to not freak out when he uses the restroom before our session. I used to even put my hands over my ears, i was so afraid of hearing anything.
But the more i have thought about and processed and accepted my dead parents and other family members comments and activities towards me, the more easy i am in accepting the humanity in myself, my t, and other people.
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I will be putting my hands over my ears now every time t walks or moves!
You know, there is something in what you say. My family are very concerned about appearances and how they are perceived! I was always showed off like a show dog! Maybe I expected my t to be perfect, super human but the reality is very different- she is very human.