I’ve been with my girl for about a year and a half now and it’s been good for the most part. She’s loving, nurturing, smart, selfless, and beautiful. She’s not without her flaws though same as everybody. But for the past couple months she’s been spouting off this whole thing about after two years she expects to a ring from me.

Unfortunately I suffered from an accident that almost killed me. Leaving me in recovery and disabled for a year say the doctors. So Mu life is very much up in the air. I only work at a part time job, I had to quit trade school, give up a much higher paying job, and now have medical bills.

I honestly don’t see how she thinks the timing is right. If I was to get married now I would loose my insurance and she would lose her disability benefits. Leaving us both up **** creek without a paddle.