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May 25, 2018, 05:33 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Posts: 8,406
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You need to say exactly what you just wrote to us, to her. She has expressed some expectations. I think it's only fair for you (Fair to both of you) for you to be honest with where you are in your life.
Is this just a longer timeline for you or a decision to make? Like, do you want to be with her, but a marriage isn't possible right now? Or are you not sure you want to be married to her?
Seesaw
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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