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Old May 25, 2018, 08:07 PM
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If you aren’t 100% sure, you shouldn’t marry.

I spent 9 years with someone not being sure, we eventually move in together, I still wasn’t sure. It was a good relationship but still I always was one foot out. Eventually I figured it’s time for me to move on. I do not regret but frankly 9 years of not being sure is just too long

When I met my husband I was sure within two months. We waited 7 months to get engaged just so we don’t freak our kids out by marrying too soon. Lol Few months after that we were married. All of a sudden I had no fear of commitment

When you meet right person, you just know.