I'm unsure if I'm in the right forum, I'm confused a bit where to post for the following. Somewhat long, my apologies. I've been dating a man for almost two years now, and earlier this year he shared things with me I find odd.
He never spoke of such things prior to the beginning of this year, but now he doesn't stop. First, he believes that he is of chosen people of God. He tells me there will be a war soon, he can see biblical symbols or pagan symbols in clouds. His eyes get blurry and he blinks and then sees them in the clouds. Since finding out I am an RH negative blood type, he believes that I have alien blood and meeting me is all related to the fight he is going to have.
He had some friends where he would spend hours on the internet researching all these connections. About two months ago he started to believe they were "pawns" in whatever is happening, now he doesn't go over there.
He is constantly discussing what is going to happen, and my alien blood. He's hostile and agitated at everything, explaining exactly how he's going to fight. For some reason he believes I am not "evil" like the other RH negatives. He's so angry all the time, he talks incessantly without breaths, and if I disagree I'm lectured. I don't know what I'm dealing with. He's a fighter, big guy, he backs down from no one and I am naturally a fiery personality, so I do question what I perceive as absurdity. There's a difference between testosterone and someone who believes everyone is potentially against them. He got angry with me when I said his name to the neighbor, because he said he may have to fight. Then he told me a few days ago the neighbor made his dog bark at him because I mentioned his name over six months ago. This makes zero sense to me.
I'm losing my patience and I'm worried for my safety. I suggested discussing this with a professional, and he lost it. I'm not trying to figure out a diagnosis, I'm not qualified, but am I being ignorant continuing this? He doesn't work anymore, he won't even tell me how he lost his job or how he gets any money.
I really care about this man, but his hostility and thoughts scare me. Any thoughts, my friends think I need to shut it all down and move on.
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