These types of situations had happened to me in the past as well; and I always thought of it as just 'giving in' at first too, and hadn't considered myself a rape/sexual assault victim. But I learned later on down the road that it really is rape/sexual assault for someone to do this.

Because if you have said "no" or "stop" at least once, that should be the end of it. Coercion by annoying us until we give in or being pushy about it until we just give up and let them have their way was not consent.

I'm so sorry you went through that! And yes, you have a right to feel angry and bitter about it. It was wrong, and you were wronged....but we live and we learn and eventually learn to let go.....

And thank goodness you got away that time! Much love to you!