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You want to truly help me? Then help me fix contempt when there IS contempt
You know it's funny how someone who needs help and people end up going head-to-head on the person needing the help rather than trusting that what they say is true and actually help them find a solution to the external problem. But instead, as what happens in therapy, they're always looking for an internal problem without helping take care of the external problem
So you either help me take care of the external problem, or off you go - going head-to-head does not take care of the external problems, just so you know
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It is not clear to me to whom you are speaking here. Are you speaking to Favorite Jeans? If so, it is not the job of anyone on this forum to help you and certainly not to become a fixer for you. You might want to remember that many posters here have their own vulnerabilities. You sound hostile and negative and this could potentially be upsetting for others when it is directed at them.