I agree, there are far too many insensitive people on this planet (and this doesn’t make them “strong” people, it’s more likely they are “ignorant” or “angry” people )

I wouldn’t have appreciated her comments either

Someone suggested “volunteering” to me recently, there’s nothing wrong with the suggestion in itself but it isn’t always the most helpful suggestion .. I wasn’t asking for “advice” etc .... (and I’d already thought of that, tried it etc... )