I am not sure about wanting to be monogamous or boyfriend/girlfriend after one date. Even if you really like someone, it’s unrealistic.

Even the most fast developing relationship need more than one date.

It is normal to expect decency and good treatment from men regardless how many dates you had, but I wouldn’t expect to know for sure if they are right match. Go on few more dates.

Calling someone “baby” “babe” or “honey” after one date isn’t my style and I’d be a bit wary of a man who does that. Simply because it’s just not my style to flirt that early and I prefer men who don’t love bomb me too soon regardless how much they like me. But some people just talk like this. It doesn’t mean much imho.

Just focus on his actions and see how you feel around him. Just go on a second date. Did you plan it already?