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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am not sure about wanting to be monogamous or boyfriend/girlfriend after one date. Even if you really like someone, it’s unrealistic.
Even the most fast developing relationship need more than one date.
It is normal to expect decency and good treatment from men regardless how many dates you had, but I wouldn’t expect to know for sure if they are right match. Go on few more dates.
Calling someone “baby” “babe” or “honey” after one date isn’t my style and I’d be a bit wary of a man who does that. Simply because it’s just not my style to flirt that early and I prefer men who don’t love bomb me too soon regardless how much they like me. But some people just talk like this. It doesn’t mean much imho.
Just focus on his actions and see how you feel around him. Just go on a second date. Did you plan it already?
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I don't want to be his girlfriend. Is that what you're saying? That you think that's what I want? I have no clue at this point and am just casually dating this dude. He seems more interested. But it also seems fake to me. Idk why. But I will date him again. No we haven't set another date. Honestly, I'm not in the mood today to do that. I'll let him contact me if he wants another date.
It might be good for me to get clarification from him on where his mind is when calling me "babe" and hon". Not in the mood for that either today. But yeah.
And yeah I understand there's a get to know a person process.
Thanks.