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Old May 26, 2018, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
I completely agree with trusting your gut as to whether or not you fit well with him.

It is okay to see someone as a good guy and also to sense that he isn’t a good fit for you.
Thank you! Thank you so much Bill

I would ideally like to trust my intuition every single day. We can all make mistakes with that, of course. But I've been kind of bad at trusting my instincts lately (aka: I've gotten whispers and red flags, and ignored it). I even do it with a worker of mine. It is clear to me she likes to "Tell tales." She is also unhelpful with me and gives me advice I don't need and that doesn't help me and that invalidates me. Just saying that out loud, is a form of trusting my gut. I can't not see her anymore, due to I must see her, but I can set boundaries and I can be assertive with my needs and complain if I need to. I just went on a tangent, but whatever.
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Bill3
Thanks for this!
Bill3