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Originally Posted by little turtle
I just had some wine...I have had a cocktail hour with my wife for 63 years ....
95 % of the time it is good...a couple of times it was bad...but no hitting..
tonight we talked about whether to hide things or bring them out in the light...
we have a difference about this....as a patient I now want to bring everything out in the open..i am just a depressed guy who is scared about the way the world is going...I don't like it...it scares me..it makes me so sad...I see so much suffering ..
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Whether to hide things or bring them out into the light.. Papa Bear and I don’t really agree about this either. Mostly “little” things like my collection of stuffies, he doesn’t think there is anything wrong with my collecting stuffies, I know there isn’t anything wrong with it. But his family is, I guess, “reserved” and “conventional” - with one possible NPD (I hope not

).. and the “family” I came from were secretive to the extreme, judgemental, rejecting (maybe gaslighting,
haven’t really looked into that (yet) ...... it’s amazing I’m not more “crazy” than I am
The world scares me too and makes me sad .. I hate that there is so much suffering ..