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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie
No matter what a T is always a stranger as we no so little about them. Even when they do disclose something I feel they might make it up because they think that is what we want to hear. So even if I spend 2 years with a T they are still do not know them. They can throw us under a bus at any given moment or dump us because they are tired of us.
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Thsts not true. Knowing someone is more than details. It's about what happens betweenn 2 people in the room.
It comes from the heart. You are coming from the head.
My sense of trust is highly tuned. I do not let others in easy.
This isn't something you can fake. You won't trust what isn't trustworthy. There has to be something "there" between 2 people.
I have that "there" in therapy. I know little about T's life outside. But I know from her handling if Me that I can trust her.
I still walk timidly but she proves trustworthy and I move into the next bit.