I am sorry to hear that. Having or not having kids is a big deal. Men don’t necessarily read profiles that carefully. He likely didn’t pay attention to that portion. It could also be that since you two didn’t have serious discussion about kids what he said was maybe just a moment reaction. I’d wait and see what he says in person.

Texting imho is only good for passing on information, not serious discussion: too many misunderstandings could occur. I am sorry you are hurting. Don’t beat yourself up. Can you keep very busy next few days with no time to think? That usually helps me when I am anxious