I remember when my wife had an affair I was very angry at who she cheated with. That anger could have ruined my whole life , and over what ? I really can’t blame the guy for taking advantage of her failing marriage.
Then I thought, why should I be mad at him when it was her who allowed it ?
I agree with you. It wasn’t her who ruined your marriage, it was HIM.
I’m at the point now where I just would like to move on with my life. I don’t care about him, her , or the past anymore. I’m so tired of being made the fool.
I just want to live out the rest of my days in some kind of peace.