I can't see the forest for the WTF...

I really can't even. Like I'm trying to write a coherent answer with logical points and it's too hard.

I'm gonna try to summarize though: the therapist isn't good at therapizing. You don't have to be emotionally or otherwise generous to someone who sexually abused you. I can't believe that the therapist's first priority isn't your feelings, your experiences, your truth. It's really the least you can ask for. The whole point of therapy is that you matter.