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Originally Posted by malika138
I have two children and I try really hard to tell them that their feelings matter, that it is okay to be upset, etc. I definitely want them to know that they are loved - important to me, valued, have interesting things to say. Basically I use everything I have learned in therapy to be the polar opposite of my parents. Hopefully I am meeting their emotional needs. My son recently became depressed and I feel good about how I am handling it - I've got him in to see a therapist, I let him talk about, I knowledge his pain. These are all things my parents had zero ability to do.
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Same here. I did pray about my first child and unlearning the negative thru my counseling. It got better from there. I wanted my kids to be able to be open and share their thoughts and feelings, while I grew into being an open, authentic mom. I wanted to break the generational curse.