I reached out to keep in touch with old boyfriends. If my marriage had been happy and healthy, I don’t think I would have. For me, the lure of facebook was too tempting. I “friended” ALL my exes. That’s been rather nice, actually, as they are just facebook friends now and I enjoy their posts. Even emotional affairs are indeed affairs and cheating. I didn’t have any sexual affairs. I did try to form a new relationship and leave my husband, but it didn’t work. Now we’re divorcing and there is no one else for me.

Yes, I have fond memories, tender moments, sweet nothings... that’s what living life is all for!

But, be true to yourself and don’t devastate your partner by cheating on them. If you aren’t happy, leave.