I hope you don't mind me adding this. Regardless of where you go with this guy, please have some fertility tests and consider freezing your eggs. Our clocks can tick funny and once this need is awakened, it can over complicate things. You need to know if you can conceive, carry full term, have no major issues and maybe even some eggs frozen - and all the other stuff that happens with this guy or anyone else fits YOU not the other way round. I know you are about ten years younger than me, but I wish someone had told me this when I was your age because I then went through an early menopause. It's free in the UK and I'm sure it costs money in the States but don't you think it'd be worth knowing? All good wishes to you.