It’s getting hot here in the Midwest, so maybe the heat’s to blame, but...

I was on such a good streak of not freaking out about my boyfriend, but this morning he’s been so non-emotional and kind of unreceptive. It’s probably definitely nothing, but how’s an emotional person like me, for the long haul, supposed to get along with someone who rarely shows his emotions? I don’t get to see my therapist again until June 7, so I guess I feel a little stranded while I wait another week and a half.

Again, everything’s fine... I know we both get sluggish and moody in the heat (and it’s only gonna get hotter from here on out). And I know it’s harder to be affectionate when it’s hot, too (even hugging is tainted by the humidity!).

It shouldn’t be this hard... each person in a relationship should be able to just do what she/he/they want, to be in a room silently together, to want to do their own thing.... in fact, I crave being alone quite often and sometimes just feel like lying on the bed not talking to anyone, just like my guy is now. But for someone reason, when HE does it, I think he’s being avoidant and aloof. Which makes ME scared to do it because I think he’ll think the same. What is wrong with me, and how do I fix it??