so im in this relationship with this boy. i just so happen to be 17 and he is 21. iv been on and off with him for a while now but i think i love him, i don't know?? because iv never felt this way... yesterday my best friend told me to chose him or her. my relationship with her has been on and off too. it started when i got into drugs, and now that iv gotten caught by the police im done with it but my boy friend is one of the people i used to party with and do some drugs with.. but he's changed. its just she cant see that. She doesn't know him, she's never met him, and she doesn't want to. She's afraid that my parents are going to find out about us and that she's going to be left in the dust and having givin everything up for me, shes afraid she'll get hurt again. there is so much more to this story but i think people would get bored by it. So i was just wondering how do i chose.? between the man that i love and my only best friend????