I do not call what happened to you rape. I also don't believe that you have any reason at all to feel regretful or guilty since you enjoyed the time spent with the guy.

My one concern is that you went to someone's home without even knowing him. That is asking for trouble, sooner or later. Then you smoked weed right away, so you were not clear-headed.


You made several choices that you were responsible for making. Those choices are yours to own. Not to feel guilty about, but to accept as options you chose.