I’m a runner too! My best friend accidentally slipped in exposing that to my current partner. So it was sort of a conversation we had to have about 3 months in. I expressed that I don’t want to but feel the need to at times. My partner was understanding and told me that if I had the need to, to just let him know and we could work on it together. We’re almost at a year now.

Having the talk would be beneficial so that either you both can decide what to do and she doesn’t get confused as to what she did wrong.