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Originally Posted by Favorite Jeans
I can't see the forest for the WTF...
I really can't even. Like I'm trying to write a coherent answer with logical points and it's too hard.
I'm gonna try to summarize though: the therapist isn't good at therapizing. You don't have to be emotionally or otherwise generous to someone who sexually abused you. I can't believe that the therapist's first priority isn't your feelings, your experiences, your truth. It's really the least you can ask for. The whole point of therapy is that you matter.
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Thanks a lot for the validation. Yea, this whole thing has thrown me off course. Some people aren't a good fit for their careers and that's her. Speaking up doesn't help at all. I've been trying that and she's just not getting it. And you're right: therapy should be client centered. She tells me not the bring my other family members opinions about my grandma into the conversation, which makes sense, but she brings up her friends all the time. I'm tired. I'm looking into other places that take my insurance so I don't have to continue wasting money. The letter issue is the big thing, though. It's like I'm stuck everywhere I go. This year started off great and all of a sudden problems ate popping up out of nowhere...
